I dont even know what to call this one ! ! !

Ok today,s rant is one that kind of makes me upset/ annoyed/ fed up/ concerned, not sure which one to choose. Every one has problems, everyone had struggles, life is full of ups and downs, this is a given. All of these elements of life come in different forms to different people, and a lot of the times these situations have a large affect on others, spouses, siblings, friends and other family. What gets to me is how they are handled. Some people run, some people clam up, some people shut down, some people become hostile. Although for some it may be extremely difficult to over come it is always possible given the right state of mind and attitude.
I often find myself in the face of such situations either happening to me personally or to someone close to me, and in all honesty in the past i have been guilty of handling the situation with every one of the wrong reactions I listed above. I know I may not be as old as some or as seasoned, but i do know that i have spent a large time observing and learning as well as experiencing life's good and bad. It upsets me and affects me greatly when people close to me have to suffer these difficulties, especially when there are others that are more directly affected (kids). Often times i try to be the voice of reason and try to uplift and at the least open the eyes and the mind to help promote the right attitude towards the situation, sometimes i feel it helps, and I'm not expert in solving other peoples problem, all i try is to help them think and make rational decisions.
Ok now the part of this whole thing that really upsets me is when the ones that are affected can do absolutely nothing to help or change the situation. when you are the only one what will suffer from your decisions or behavior or actions or whatever its fine, you make your bed you lay it, but when others have to deal with it thats where the problem comes, i have made a choice to stay away from these situations now because it takes a toll on me mentally and physically because i cannot stand to see people close to me hurt or suffer but sometimes there is nothing you can do. And as hard as it will be for me to just stay out and let it be, i have come to that conclusion.
Make your decisions wisely and do not let life defeat you people, NO MATTER WHAT THE CHALLENGE ! ! ! there is always a solution. Do not forget others who may be affected by the things you do, keep fighting for your life, I'm done.

Rude

Today I'm going to address rude ass people. Can someone explain to me why some people have to be so damn rude ? ? ? I mean if your hate your job its not my fault, if your having a bad day it was'nt because of me , so why take it out on me ? ? ? How about you go be pissy with whoever cause your mood , if anyone at all. And for those who are just always rude and really don't need a reason get over yourself your alive and have enough strength to be rude alot of people dont even have that. So for any of you rude people out there get a better job get a new spouse or just calm your ass down and take a deep breath treat people with some respect and be happy to be alive, rude ass !!!

Mooches ? ? ?

Ok its been a few days, but with no viewers its tough to get motivated to write for the masses (or lake there of in this case). But I figure Ill just use this as a public journal of sorts.
For today's rant I'm going to speak about mooches. We all know them, some are friends, some are family, you may even be one yourself. One of the things that crawls my skin is someone who interjects them self into situations knowing they have no means of funding the said activity. How many of you out there know someone that when events are being planned whether it be a trip or gathering of some sort, one person that is gung ho and them when time comes to pay for it all they have nothing, or to take it a step further, they may even be the one planning things and inviting you! now understand i dont mean just a simple broke friend because thats is not really a problem if you mention you cant afford it or whatever it may be and you are invited anyway and are taken care of but the ones that show up and don't say a word till its time for the bill "hey i don't have any money you got me right ".......i mean wtf is that ? ? ? If you don't have it stay your ass home , and if you even mention it before hand 9 out of 10 times your friends may have your back, but waiting till your already in it, you know damn well what your trying to do. Now people is this just me being selfish or greedy or whatever ? what are your thoughts ? ? ?

Repeat callers

Is it just me , or does anyone else hate being called in rapid succession by the same person. It really annoys the hell out of me. Look if i didnt answer the phone the first time and maybe a second, DONT KEEP CALLING !!!, 4, 5, 6, 7 times are not going to get a different response, unless there is an emergency or someone is dead or on their way there dont do it ! does this annoy anyone else ? ? ?